Help with a Bully

[?] Subscribe To This Site

Help with a Bully

by Lily de Cuir
(Near Byron Bay, Australia)

Hello Everyone,

I've been a bit quiet of late on here.

Lots of things going on for me - good things, I might add! But I would like to ask your help with the use of Levi's pyramid, to deflect some negative energy.

My son is being targeted by a bully at school.

First with punches and name-calling, then last week he slammed my son's head into a brick wall. My son ended up with a bright red ear and was concussed, also had bad grazes on his hip.

Who'd be a parent? A single parent at that. It aint easy.

Anyway, I would like to ask all of my cyber family here to help neutralise this bad energy from this bully to my son. I know the pyramid works. When it's worked on by many it works a treat.

I don't want to post a picture of my son for obvious reasons, but my son is 13 years old and not a big boy. The bully is huge and comes from a sad family home. I would dearly love to press charges for assault, but I'm aware of the consequences for this kid.

If he tries it again however, I will take him and his family to the f.....g cleaners.

If you could spare some minutes using your pyramid (or just thoughts if you don't have a pyramid), I would be very grateful.

Namaste,
Lily

WG:

(Referred to levi)

The Pyramid might not be a good idea at this point.

The Pyramid matrix (owners) is getting very strong for the battle ahead against the power elite bullies. Something bad could happen to the young bully because people hate bullies and the Pyramids do not think. They go and do the job.

If your sons school cannot deal with it, give Levi the home number of the bullies daddy and he will deal with him personally over the phone.

There are no bad dogs, only bad dog owners.

Levi will go directly to the source and instill fear into the bully daddy. Its not the kids fault.

Let Levi rip this assh*les brain out.

School coward teachers?

Send the headmaster/mistress name and number of school. He will first talk logic then embarrass them in the blog.

(Levi hates bullies with a vengance.)

Hes right too because they are cowards who dare not fight someone the same size.

If your son smacks this guy in the gob, he will see the bully picking on somebody who wont hit back.

Your son is getting a beating anyway so he has nothing to lose.

One good smack in the gob and jobs a goodun!

(Your son must strike when bullys jaw is open right on the button - Jaw)

Then curl up and take the last good hiding but bully boy wont have the stomach to put his bully attitude in it. Your son will feel hes being hit with a feather. (ADVICE FROM LEVI AND MY DAD WHO IS Ex special forces)

If bully has a big brother my age or oplder give me his name and I will sort him out while Levi scrambles the leader of this dysfunctional brood.

Bullies are wankers. I'm not violent but have had to chin a few myself. Never picked on me again thats for sure.

Email Levi with info and he will use non violence fear tactics and silence the whole brood.

Go Lily GO!

Comments for
Help with a Bully

Average Rating

Click here to add your own comments

Aug 03, 2011
Rating

Power
by: Tracy Anne

Hi,

I am a single parent too and my son is 6.5yrs. I fear for him when he gets older too.

I had a bad experience of bullies when I was 11-15. In the end I took an overdose of my parents co-codemal x 50 f the buggers back in 1995.

I took them and then went on a walk. It was a very surreal time. Each minute felt like an hour and the feeling that I was going to die put a lot of things into perpective for me at a very young age.

After walking for 3 miles and reaching my grandparents I ended up in hospital.
It caused my family a lot of pain, and was the most soul destroying but defining moment in my life.

I forgave the people who bullied me, as I know that children are born beautiful and pure hearted. Its the parents that are to blame.

Each time I before having cans of coke thrown at my head on school buses (and my brother) I would pray to 'God' to protect me and let it pass. I read the whole bible when I was 11, and thought I'd found god. It only lasted until one day I was so fearful I ended up in a rageful fight and ended up being pushed in front of the school bus.

I know that my pleas were falling on deaf ears.

All I would say is, it shouldn't be put up with. I say to my son if anyone hurts him to tell the teacher. These days they get in trouble for hitting back. But if he was in your situ I would say the same as you. Belt the nob right back until his nose bled. Thats karma fistra. lol.

I truely hope that things work out, and obviously I was the exception. xxxxxxxxxxx

May 15, 2011
Rating

Thanks Lloyd...
by: Lily

Hi Lloyd,

Thanks for your perspective, I really appreciate it. Sometimes it takes someone who is not in the situation, to make sense of it. I'm too caught up emotionally at the moment, even though I have wonderful,supportive people and family around me, I tend not to want to worry them. Even though they would be the first ones to berate me for that.

Go figure the non-sensical nature of that!

Off to bed for me. Wish me a peaceful and nightmare free night.

Love Lily

May 15, 2011
Rating

Choices
by: Lloyd

Lily,

I'm reminded of something I read and took to heart a very long time ago - we all come to this world to experience something and learn from it and the situation we find ourselves in reflects what we have come to experience. This can be positive or negative - experience is experience, both "good" and "bad" and you can't have one without the other, so it's quite possible that this bully is actually here to learn what it's like to be on the wrong side of the tracks, to get into trouble and experience all the negative things that life like that has to offer. I'm not saying that this is good or bad, just that it is.

So before you start worrying about the bully finding himself in a bad situation, worry about your son. The bully will likely find himself in a bad place anyway one way or another, either through what he's doing to your son, or through something else. Don't sweat for him. Look after your son and yourself, and let the Universe deal with the bully. Think how you would feel if this boy got away with what he's doing then, emboldened by that, did something much worse to some poor kid. Put your son and yourself first. The bully must stop what he's doing and that's all there is to it.

JMHO,
Lloyd.

May 15, 2011
Rating

Another 'rough up'
by: Lily

Hello Nadine and All,

Thanks for your concern Nadine, very kind of you to think of us. Unfortunately this bully had a second go at my son last week. Very upsetting for me, had a few nights of not being able to sleep and having bad dreams when I do sleep.

Sadly, this bully has a very disruptive and negative family background. In spite of everything I feel sorry for him. But it's a horrible feeling to not be able to keep your child safe during the day at school. I mean, I can't wrap him up in cottom wool and sit on his shoulder every day.

So this bully has received another suspension. (2nd one).

We've been advised that before an assault charge is laid, that a police officer will front up to his house and give him a strong caution, should he try anything again (a 3rd time, then we will press charges.) Given his family background, I'm torn. What does one do? I don't want to see this being a slippery slope into his going to a boys' home or for him to have a criminal record.

I'm very tempted to use the pyramid. Levi advised not to, in this case. But I'm sorely tempted.

Thanks again for your thoughts and concern. I appreciate it.

Love Lily

WG:

The Pyramid is more than likely at work in its own mysterious and subtle way. They protect without asking.

Got a funny feeling that this guy is heading for a good beating from someone who can handle themselves. Be great if it was a girl who did it!

May 14, 2011
Rating

Your son
by: Nadine

Hi Lily - I was also wondering how things have unfolded - I sincerely hope that the situation has resolved itself and that your son is safe.

Take care

Apr 15, 2011
Rating

hello
by: Socorro

Hope all has calmed down with your son and the bully. :)

Apr 13, 2011
Rating

Hello Cyber Family....
by: Lily

Well, some of you are not cyber, but real life people I know face to face, lol...

Thanks for all your support.

WG, just read all your comments, including the one that 'Levi is working on it'.

For everyone, let me recount an incident about 2 years ago, again involving my son with a bully. (Old-timers here would remember it). Levi weaved his magic - within a few weeks the kid moved out, he was a next door neighbour, received counselling and now is trying to be friends with my son on the school bus...go figure!
Co-incidence? I think not.

That's Levi for you. His blood is worth bottling.
Thank you Levi!

He is the real deal folks.

Love Lily
x

Apr 13, 2011
Rating

Support
by: Andrew

Hey Lily,
An important thing to be aware of is that your son needs to know he has your support and that you are willing to do something about it. Which I am sure you are doing anyway. Being on the receiving end of bullying can be bad enough but when it comes to violence it can be terrifying.

You yourself confronting the bully or their parents could lead to repercussions from them personally, to you or your son.

Schools have a duty of care to provide a safe environment. If the school does not do anything in response, then threaten them with a complaint to the Department of Education and let them know you will seek legal advice. That should hopefully get there as**s into gear.

Apr 12, 2011
Rating

I get you completely...
by: Lily

Hi Nadine and all,

Nadine I get you completely! It's happened to me before. The buggers leave a little snippet of crucial information out and you end up like you say, with egg on your face. Been there, so I'm being cautious.

But Jesus when something like that happens you shape-shift into a Lioness and you want blood, lol...heaven help anyone when someone touches our kids.

Thanks for your words of advice. I will breath and take it one step at a time and let the school do their tour of duty first, then re-access it.

I always have Levi as back-up (heaven help them).

Cheers,
Lily
Ha, ha, password HELIUM

Apr 11, 2011
Rating

Perspective
by: Nadine

HI Lily,

As a mom of 4 kids, two boys (now adults) and two girls, I certainly feel your pain, in the helplessness that comes of not physically being there to protect your child.

I too have had experience with other kids bullying my own, and offer a couple of thoughts on this - my kid came home bloody nose, cut lip, black eye - my knee jerk reaction was to be the enforcer, and fix the problem - I saw red, hit the streets looking for the kid - found him and his parent with all kinds of accusations ...I was ready to rumble (I even backed over my kid's bike sitting in the driveway in my haste to find the bas*ard who hurt my son) what I encountered is that, there were circumstances that my son failed to advise me of.... I certainly heard about the injustice bestowed upon him, and I unfailingly believed that he was completely innocent - but, what I discovered, as I engaged the other party and parents, was that there was more to the story than I had been told.

It was interesting to put the two kids together and pointedly ask, what happened, who started what, etc.etc. as sometimes details are left out in the first telling. When the kids were put together side by side, there was no room for the "he said-she said" Its all in the perspective who was actually "wronged" and why they did what they did.

Suffice it to say, in this particular situation, I was left with egg on my face, as my son actually instigated the altercation, and came out of it worse for wear....

This is not to say that this little bugger isn't a complete **hole and deserves to have a dressing down for what he has put your son through, just try to be calm enough to investigate thoroughly.

For me, I had to learn that my kid wasn't a saint either...so...

Plan A - I pray for a quick and positive resolution for your son and yourself, hopefully without violence, as we have enough of that in the world already.

Plan B - give Levi the phone #...

Al the best Lily - deep breaths - sometimes we have to let the kids sort things out for themselves too ..... that's another story...

Apr 11, 2011
Rating

Bullies
by: Lloyd

Hi Lily,

All I can say is that this disturbed kid will be a problem until someone stands up to him. Yes the problem starts at home, but ultimately he will be the one who needs to be dealt with, as I think the damage is done by now.

I would caution against doing anything which may rile the kid or his family. Bullies have a nasty habit of taking out retribution on kids they think have blabbed. They do it in ways that can't be traced and can be psychologically damaging. They are sick. The only way to deal with them is to make sure they are so scared of the potential repercussions that they don't dare do anything more.

You will of course have to make your own mind up about this. Levi and WG are correct in their idea that these people have to be sorted out, but never underestimate the stupidity of this sort of person. They will not get the message until someone does to them what that kid is doing to your child.

I grew up in a school which had bullies and they tried me on for size. I was smaller than them, and they knew it, and the only defence I had was to simply not let them get to me. We are psychologically stronger than they are. That can be used to advantage, but your son has to let it go until he understands. I feel for you in this, and I can only agree with the sentiments of the other posters, and Levi and WG. But nothing will work unless the boy himself is in fear of having someone do unto him what he is doing to your son.

Just be careful, Lily. I agree with everything others have said, but these little vermin have bigger vermin for parents and they need to be dealt with that way.

Lloyd.

Apr 11, 2011
Rating

Many Thanks
by: Lily

Thanks to all who have responded to this post.

"We won't use guns. We won't use force. We'll use the one thing we've got more of, that's our minds."

Thanks Twi, that just about sums it up.

Bless you and everyone who visits this site.

Much Love, Lily,
xxx

Apr 11, 2011
Rating

The one thing we've got more of...
by: Twi

My thoughts are with you and your son, Lily. I'm visualising you both safely wrapped in a rose quartz crystal. I bought one to work with me today as I had a feeling I'd be needing it for something...

From someone who also comes from a single parent background (my mother and grandmother raised me), I can empathise a lot here. I received a little bullying at school (mostly words) but it was nipped in the bud fairly quickly. It was mostly just a few kids/classmates fooling around.
The worst bully I ever encountered was actually a school teacher I had in year 7 (4th year junior school). She was a devout christian, and I a pagan who believes in nature. Her actions were certainly not 'christian' though...

It is easy to want to cull these useless entities, but we have to be stronger than that. Many of these bullies have insecurities of their own - strange, also that many school/street bullies also have two side kicks with them. A dick and two balls to make up for what they lack!

To quote Jarvis Cocker (singer/front man of the Indie band, Pulp).

"We won't use guns. We won't use force. We'll use the one thing we've got more of, that's our minds."

Apr 11, 2011
Rating

bullies are predators
by: Socorro

Hi Lily And all!

Sorry you are dealing with this situation. My first reaction was to tell your kid to break this little punk's nose. But because some kids are crazy nowadays, make sure the little punk is just a punk not a punk with a knife or worse. So know the enemy and act accordingly.

If he's just a punk who needs to be fixed, then so be it. Then once your son fixes him, I'd make a big stink about it so the punk knows he is on the school staff's radar. Unfortunately, he'll probably move on to easier prey. Or maybe not. Maybe your son will teach him a valuable lesson.

I will send positive thoughts your way to get rid of this nasty person out of your life asap.

Apr 11, 2011
Rating

Thanks for your support....
by: Lily

Hi Josh, Chris, Levi,WG and all...

Must say it's comforting to come to these pages where we all have each others backs.

We are tight here.

I will give the school the opportunity to diffuse the situation but if that doesn't work, I will take matters into my own hands. I was so angry and upset to see my son concussed and dizzy by this idiot kid. Like WG says, you can't blame the other kid. He has his own problems with a Mother who couldn't give a flying 'you know what' about him.

I wouldn't like to be on the receiving end of Levi's response. (Thank you Levi!)

As a single Mother I also thank you strong men on here who come to the aid of a woman and kid so quickly. That is true manliness, even if it is in cyber space, lol...

I've told my son not to be the one to hit first, but that he has every right to defend himself, but being a bit on the small side (like myself), he must have thought twice before hitting back at a big, fat kid. Don't blame him for that. And besides, the big bully has other friends not far behind him, as cowards do.

My son felt the only way to retaliate to this kid was verbally, by calling him 'gay' - that's what got his head smashed against the wall.

Thanks everyone, feel I'm not so alone and that there is support and help out on these pages.

Love
Lily x

PS: Martial arts classes come to mind...

WG:

Martial Arts take a long time. Ask Levi.

There are other methods taught to the SAS etc.

Levi knows these as well. (Because my dad and his mates taught him)

Chat with Levi and he will show you how. Then show your son.

Two fingers to the throat and a quick flip of the heel will deck this assh*le in less then three seconds. (I have done it myself to a much bigger guy)

Then will bully boy on floor struggling for breath, your son can then ask if he wants his windpipe ripping out. (He wont have to of course because bullies "are" cowards)

The effect on those who witness this is one of great respect. (Your son could kick him in the head if he wanted but just diffusing the bully on his back in panic shows everyone looking on that this little guy is not want to messed with because he did not have to stoop so low. What happens when he really loses it? They will think)

Two Fingers and a Heel is all it takes. No physical damage will be done to the bully except to his reputation.

I know Levi did similar when he was young and a little runt. My dad told me the story.

When the bigger boys saw little Levi dismantle the bully, they were queueing for a shot at the bully themselves.

The bully backed down from every challenge. Never bullied again...

RE" As a single Mother I also thank you strong men on here who come to the aid of a woman...

There are no strong men here. Only Spartans. Even strong men fear Spartans Lily.

Two Fingers One Heel!

Apr 11, 2011
Rating

Unfortunate
by: Josh

I've typed, and typed, and typed. Then I erased and erased and erased.

It's a tough situation to resolve, and telling your kid to whack him one might work or it could get him killed inadvertently. Kids don't play fair anymore.

I would tell you to buy your boy a stun gun or tazer, and when he's down tell him to kick the shit otta him. Then taze his ass again. If he gets in trouble for it then at least your son will be alive and with a healthy mind. Maybe even have gained some respect from others and for himself. Then again he might not be able to attend school anymore either.

According to some that might not be a bad thing, but I understand circumstances don't always make that an easy thing to deal with.

I hope Levi is able to help you on this one, but it needs to be resolved as soon as possible, like yesterday. It sounds like the situation is getting worse and it will only continue down that dark road if nothing is done about it.

This video went viral and there are varying stories about what really happened now that it's been around for awhile. What's sad is that they have tried to censor the video, but I can find gang fights all day long on youtube...what's up with that? This kid became an internet sensation with fans all over for apparently standing up to a bully.

Watch and you decide..."Casey Haynes"

GO TO - www.youtube.com

Look for more videos on him, got a lot of news coverage too.

Apr 11, 2011
Rating

return bashing
by: ChrisH(UK)

I also find it amazing (even after all these years) that a bully can usually be silenced by giving em a return bashing. I had a lot of bullying in school, ranging from physical (in junior school) through to the subtle verbal by the time I reached the end of grammar school.

It's a desperate strain on the nerves, I've been there.

However, I do remember clocking someone over the head with my school-bag when I was eight...right little madam she was, but incredibly the schoolbag drained her of all energy and she never bothered me again.

Hope all goes well, Lily; it's no fun being on the receiving end of all that.

WG:

Im beginning to think this bully is F*cked!

(Levi already at work)

Apr 10, 2011
Rating

Thanks!
by: Lily

Thanks WG and Levi, I appreciate your advice. Will see how the school handles it and what happens on their return from school holidays.

You won't believe the password - BLOWUP

Cheers,

Lily

WG: RE PASS: Blowup

Knock Down would be better!

Click here to add your own comments

Join in and write your own page! It's easy to do. How?
Simply click here to return to 2011 Your Blog

SBI!

2012 Predictions Now Available

Levi's 2012 Predictions now available in ebook form.

60 Pages dedicated to this mysterious year of 2012 claimed as End Times.

Incorporating all Predictions posted on this website from 2007 through 2011 for easy reference.

Although some timelines have elapsed some unfulfilled Predictions from years ago are now manifesting into reality making 140 Pages in all.

Only £3.99

For Free Preview Click 2012 Predictions Button in nav bar on left.

Thank You For Your Support.

2012 Private Blog (PB) Is Now Open For New Subscriptions.

Price £35 for one year.

You can always trial it as pay as you go by clicking on button below each free preview PB that is posted. Price £1.50.

Subscribe here for the year.

Book A Tarot Consultation With Levi

Recession Buster £45. Approx 1 Hour Plus Reading. Very Limited Slots Per Week.

Full Readings Also Still Available. Go To Link Below To Book Your Choice And Contact Details.

GO TO - Contact Form

Readings By Internet Skype Or Telephone. (Sorry No Mobile or Cell Phone)

2012 Psychic Pyramid Resonator

Psychic Pyramid Power. Make things happen to your advantage with your personal key to harness the Earth's Metaphysical Energies with a 2012 Pyramid Psychic Resonator.

This Psychic Pyramid Resonator is an extremely powerful Psychic Tool.

One face is for Luck, Money and Wealth.

One face is for Health and Healing others.

One face is for Relationships or attracting the right people.

One face is for Protection and dealing with negative people or situations.
Go To - Psychic Pyramid Resonator

Help with a Bully

Comments for Help with a Bully

Comments for
Help with a Bully